Hole in One!

There is only one thing equal to shooting a hole in one; your buddy shooting a hole in one! Yesterday, my friend from the UK sent me an email with the title my first hole in one; unfortunately, I was on the golf course and did not receive the information before I was talking to him on Skype.

His first question was if I had read the email. Saying no, he said that something really special happen; I immediately shouted that he shot a hole in one! His mile wide smile gave it away and he said yes. I welcomed him to the club. Of course I wanted details.

Hole in One kirk

He was playing the Northwood Golf Club, Middlesex, UK. It was 149 yards. He used a 7-iron. It hopped once then into the hole. There were witnesses. He said as he walked to the green that his playing partner suggested that the ball went over the back, he knew completely different. During the entire description of this historic event, you could his chest puffed out just a little bit.

I am grateful he shared his story with me. I believe all hole in one shots are intended and the stroke is perfectly. Personally, I love these stories because I enjoy sharing the thrill of success with my friends!

Thanks ole boy for sharing your story. I am a grateful golfer! See you on the links!

What is Important in Golf?

The Boys at Voyageur Days Golf Tournament

The Boys at Voyageur Days Golf Tournament

What is important in golf?  Most players immediately think of the mechanics of a golf swing, mental preparation, scoring low or going for scratch.  All of these points are very important, but is that really what is important in golf…..to you?

Golf is bigger than a game. It offers the opportunity to for players to enhance their lives in many ways.  But, it is important to note that golf offers something different for everyone. For me, golf offers many ways to be grateful; so today I thought I would share some of those.  I am grateful because:

  1. I have golfed with an astronaut – Colonel Robert Springer.  He explained what it was like to be in a space shuttle – that was way cool;
  2. I have golfed with a 73 year-old guy who schooled me on the importance of the short game (cost me three drinks for the lesson);
  3. I have learned to control my emotions while working through adversity;
  4. I have learned to be a gentlemen;
  5. I have learned to be gracious whether I win or lose;
  6. I am inspired every time I play in the morning when the sun peeks over the trees;
  7. I have watched, then celebrated with others after they shot a hole-in-one; especially my mother;
  8. I converse daily with like-minded golfers friends around the world through blogging and social media;
  9. I continue to meet so many fantastic people on the golf course that I cannot count them all; and
  10. Mostly, I share my most favorite game with the people I treasure the most!

I could go on and on, but I think you get the point that golf provides some many opportunities to be grateful.  I have played golf for most of my life, but it has only been the past five years that I really understand how it has helped shape the person I am today. Some may think that I am crazy for letting a game become so important to my life – they may have a valid point.  I would counter to say that golf really is more than a game because it continues to teach me how to set goals, face adversity, support others, cherish friendships and share joyful experiences everyday!

What are you grateful for?

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!

Chasing the Dream

How elusive is your golf dream?  If 100 people were asked this question, 101 answers would be given.  Chasing your dream in golf is very difficult, stressful, fun and exciting all at the same time.  It is all a matter of perception.

Perception vs RealityThe famous quote that “Perception is reality” absolutely applies to all golfers. In golf, many players have the dream of turning pro, hitting a hole-in-one, breaking par, breaking 100 or winning a nickel off their buddy during their Saturday money game. That is all dreams are; a varying degree of perception.

Through the years, my dreams have changed.  Mostly, they changed as my skill level increased. Thus, my perception of what is acceptable on the course changed and logically my reality changed.  In turn, I continue to chase my elusive golf dream.  For example:

  • I wanted a hole-in-one.  I now have 3 and chase 5!
  • I wanted to break par.  I have done so several times and now want too every year.
  • I am still chasing the extremely albatross….came close once – 2 inches.

But are these really dreams or milestones.  It depends on who you talk to and how they perceive their game of golf.

Other golf dreams may include things like golfing with fellow bloggers who live around the world.  Playing golf with my wife and daughter.  Regularly playing golf with my friend in the UK and letting him win.  Golfing in New Zealand or Australia.  Playing St. Andrews.  Always living for the moment on the golf course.  Helping someone start golf. The list can go on and on.

Through the years I have met many outstanding people through golf.  Some were on the course and others over a conversation. I have played on many outstanding courses and seen things that when I was young I could only dream about.  However, as the years pass and my fond memories grow; I just smile and reflect.

After much pondering I have concluded that:

My perception is that I will always chase the elusive golf dream;

My reality in golf is that it is all about the JOURNEY!

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!

Are You a Professional Golfer?

Canadian Armed Forces National Golf Tournament

Canadian Armed Forces National Golf Tournament

Have you won more than $750 playing golf at your local club in a skins game?  Do you use golf as a primary method to make a living?  Are you receiving financial gain from golfing? Are you the local golfing sensation whose likeness is used to promote a local charity golf event? Do you compete at the elite level regularly?  If you answer yes to any of these questions, you may be considered a professional golfer!

Determining whether a player should be a card carrying professional is important.  It is safe to say that it is easy to distinguish between a professional and an amateur. Or is it?

Lyndia Ko is a perfect example of a 16-year old phenom amateur who has won four (2 LPGA and 2 International) professional tournaments.  How does she maintain her amateur status and still compete in at the elite level?  The last amateur to win a PGA event was Phil Mickelson in 1991.  He turned pro 1992 and has won 42 professional tournaments, including five majors.  Did winning this PGA event push “Lefty” towards an amateur career sooner than expected?

By definition, an “amateur golfer”, regardless of whether he plays competitively or recreationally, is one who plays golf for the challenge it presents, not as a profession and not for financial gain. (R&AUSGA)  Is it really that simple?

One major distinction about being a professional golfer is “golf skill or reputation“. Generally, an amateur golfer is only considered to have golf skill if he:

  1. has had competitive success at regional or national level or has been selected to represent his national, regional, state or county golf union or association; or
  2. competes at an elite level.

Golf reputation can only be gained through golf skill and such reputation is deemed to continue for five years after that player’s golf skill has fallen below the standard set by the Governing Body.  This statement is very important to most amateurs.  Basically, local heroes with fantastic reputations would not be considered professional golfers.  It takes much more than having a scratch handicap.

Other aspects of maintaining your amateur status are important. A recent change to the hole-in-one prizes is significant.  Traditionally, if you won more that $750 for a hole-in-one during a fun tournament, you lost your amateur status. Fortunately that has changed because Kurt Kramarenko of Dimondale would be a professional golfer today after winning ten thousand dollars in a charity golf tournament on 13 September 2013.  It may have been a life time dream, but one awesome shot does not make a professional golfer.

Another major change important distinction on a player’s status deals with subsistence expenses. An amateur golfer can receive subsistence expenses to assist with general living costs provided the expenses are approved by and paid through the player’s national golf union or association.  (R&AUSGA)  This new rule allows amateurs to keep their status while in school, compete at the elite level and prepare for a professional career.

What about the local player who travels within a three-hour radius of his house and consistently wins prizes in tournaments?  What if this local player participates directly or indirectly in a “sweepstake” or “calcutta” auction and receives money from the person who purchased their team? Or, he likes to enter tournaments that offer cash prizes because he has enough golf stuff; does this effect their amateur status? The short answer is yes. Every time a player wins money during a tournament, even non-optional skins games, the prize money goes towards the $750 limit regarding their amateur status.  A prize such as golf equipment does not appear to count towards the $750 limit.

In 2012, the USGA and R&A joined forces to make one set of governing rules to clarify the difference between professional and amateur status.  This was a good move for the overall health of golf.  Bloomburg.com suggests that golf is a 69 billion dollar industry. Amateur versus professional status is important.  The following R&A video outlines the new changes and the importance of understanding if a player is considered a professional golfer.

New Amateur Status 2012-2015

So, are you a professional golfer?  Most likely, the answer is no.  However, for some, it is a great dream.  As the golf industry continues to grow, more pressure will grow on the governing bodies to ensure an even and fair playing field. There is so much at stake that making poor decisions early in an amateur career could have detrimental, long-term results.  Being a professional golfer may not be the life-long dream of most players, but for some it typifies expertise in a sport they love.

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!

Taking Your Medicine At The US Open!

Wow what a finish!  The US Open was a race of endurance and skill.  Congratulations to Justin Rose.  I was rooting for Phil Mickelson, but he was destined to finished second for the sixth time!

The US Open did not disappoint any viewers this year.  It was excellent to watch the best in the world play on of the toughest courses laid out for the US Open Championship.  The rough was extremely long and greens crazy fast.  

It was amazing how often players had to just get their ball in play after hitting it into the rough.  The USGA stated that the penalty should add about one half stroke to someone’s score if someone had to play out of the rough.  This year, according to the TV announcers, the penalty was a full stroke.  Talk about taking your medicine.  This is a strong and important message to all amateurs who find themselves in trouble on the links.  The pros understanding of course management is a tribute to the pursuit of excellence.

The following are my highlights of the US Open this year.

Image from:  http://caddieworld.me/about/

John Dempster, Caddy

Thanks to John Dempster, from Caddyworld, for providing thegratefulgolfer.com with an update on Peter Hedblom after a partial finish of the second round.  It must have been difficult to play split rounds and then wait to make the cut.  Congratulations to Peter Hedblom for making the cut; this is an accomplishment that is rewarding in itself.

An additional thanks to Rick Williams at mindbodygolf for discussing the pre-tournament aspects of the US Open.  His insights were helpful and I am grateful for him sharing what he saw!

Mike Weir.  He finished tied for 28th.  This is a great finish for Weir.  He has struggled over the past years and as one of the last entries, he demonstrated that he belonged with the best players in the world.  Also, being Canadian, he is an automatic favorite of mine!

Phil Mickelson‘s shot on the tenth hole from the rough in the fairway was exceptional.  It was one of those once in a lifetime shots that could have been a total game changer.  Unfortunately, Merion was too much of a lion and he could not fully recover from two double bogey’s on the front nine.

Shawn Stefani‘s hole-in-one.  It was awesome!  This shot will be all over, but watch it at the National Post.  Kissing the ground where his ball hit the bank and shot to the right and rolled in to the hole was very humorous.  It was the first hole-in-one at the US Open when hosted at Merion Golf Club.

Lastly, amateur Micheal Kim.  He played like a seasoned professional.  Finishing tied for 17th, it was great to see a non-professional play with poise.  Accomplishments like his offer hope for us hackers!

The US Open is a great tournament!  This year, all golfers were not disappointed!  For this and many other reasons, I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!