Chasing the Dream

How elusive is your golf dream?  If 100 people were asked this question, 101 answers would be given.  Chasing your dream in golf is very difficult, stressful, fun and exciting all at the same time.  It is all a matter of perception.

Perception vs RealityThe famous quote that “Perception is reality” absolutely applies to all golfers. In golf, many players have the dream of turning pro, hitting a hole-in-one, breaking par, breaking 100 or winning a nickel off their buddy during their Saturday money game. That is all dreams are; a varying degree of perception.

Through the years, my dreams have changed.  Mostly, they changed as my skill level increased. Thus, my perception of what is acceptable on the course changed and logically my reality changed.  In turn, I continue to chase my elusive golf dream.  For example:

  • I wanted a hole-in-one.  I now have 3 and chase 5!
  • I wanted to break par.  I have done so several times and now want too every year.
  • I am still chasing the extremely albatross….came close once – 2 inches.

But are these really dreams or milestones.  It depends on who you talk to and how they perceive their game of golf.

Other golf dreams may include things like golfing with fellow bloggers who live around the world.  Playing golf with my wife and daughter.  Regularly playing golf with my friend in the UK and letting him win.  Golfing in New Zealand or Australia.  Playing St. Andrews.  Always living for the moment on the golf course.  Helping someone start golf. The list can go on and on.

Through the years I have met many outstanding people through golf.  Some were on the course and others over a conversation. I have played on many outstanding courses and seen things that when I was young I could only dream about.  However, as the years pass and my fond memories grow; I just smile and reflect.

After much pondering I have concluded that:

My perception is that I will always chase the elusive golf dream;

My reality in golf is that it is all about the JOURNEY!

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!

Now What!

Whats Next?The golf season is officially over for me!  It is a sad day, but not unexpected.  So now I have to prepare for the long off-season.  I have an idea of where to start, but I thought I would ask you first.

So, I am reaching out for ideas this year. Should I start with goal setting, a fitness program, finding new drills, asking experts, reading or nothing until January?

Well, all-seeing and all-knowing audience; What is your advice?

 

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links in 6 months!

LEST WE FORGET!

Lest We ForgetLEST WE FORGET! On 11 November every year is a special day.  This year it falls on this upcoming Monday and it is the time to honor the fallen, wounded and serving military men, women and their families. Their sacrifices have allowed for the freedoms we enjoy today.  It is important to give thanks and be grateful for our wonderful lives they protect.

A Pittance of Time by Terry Kelly is something that worth watching!

In Flanders Fields is read at every Remembrance Day Ceremony I have attended.  This and the “Last Post” always move me.

If you want more information please go to Veterans Affairs Canada.

Some videos and photos of serving members around the world from the Canadian Armed Forces are worth looking at.

We generally talk about golf, however it is important to be grateful for the men and women in uniform for their sacrifice.  I am a grateful golfer.  See you on the links!

Steel Vs Graphite

As I put my clubs away for the winter, yes this is a sad day, I notice that half of my clubs have steel shafts and half are graphite.  I know from earlier research that there are benefits to both but, I could not quite remember which was which.  Therefore, after a bit of searching, this is what I came up:

Image from:  http://www.americangolf.com/blog/golf-equipment/steel-vs-graphite-shafts/

Steel shafts are:

  • heavier, therefore produce less vibration during contact;
  • generally more accurate because they have less flexibility;
  • cheaper to replace; and
  • generally have better feel when making contact.

Graphite shafts are:

  • lighter, therefore generate more club head speed – thus more distance;
  • going to last as long as steel clubs if maintained properly; and
  • transmit few vibrations to hands on miss hits.

 

There really is no right answer.  For those who would like a verbal explanation, the following video sums the steel vs graphite issue up quite well.

Regardless on which shaft you decide to use, it is important that you are confident with your choice.  I use graphite for my long irons (hybrids) and woods and steel for my short irons and wedges.  I find this combination provides me with maximum distance and feel to score low and have fun.

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!

Reading The Signs

Reading obvious signs in life are very important!  Sometimes, it can mean the difference between life and death.  Not trying to be dramatic, in golf if can mean the difference between a good score and a great score.

Yesterday, I returned from my vacation.  It was a long drive home and we decided to leave in the middle of the night to make sure we made it back home at a reasonable time.  After about three hours into the trip, we were the first to come across a single vehicle accident. The vehicle was on its roof and the driver was thrown from the car and was lying in the middle of the road.  He was banged up pretty bad, but fortunately he was alive. (Our prayers go out to him for a quick and healthy recovery.)  Unfortunately, he was lying in the middle of the road.  It took some time, but my wife and I managed to call 911, secure the scene and get the injured person off the middle of the road.  Fortunately, everything worked out alright, but it was quite scary for a while.

Emergency-scene-ahead-sign

Read the Sign!

During the time when the ambulance, transport safety personnel and the police arrived is the focus of this blog.  Being so dark, I had my hazard flashers on and was pulled off to the side of the road.  As the first car arrived, I stood in front of my headlights and waved like a frantic mad man.  I did not want to leave the injured guy, but he was still in the middle of the road and I was afraid the drive would not stop in time.  Fortunately, the drive saw me and slowed down enough to realize the serious and dangerous situation.  I asked him to back up and stop traffic until the ambulance arrived.  He willing helped.  After ten cars were stopped, some became impatient, regardless of the potential dangers, drove around the accident scene and left. Thanks for the help!

First on the scene, the ambulance arrived and took the guy to the hospital.  Then, more impatient people drove over broken glass, around debris, and basically ignored all the signs of danger.  Next on the scene was a highway safety guy.  He turned all his hazard lights on (this is the guys you see with the big yellow lights at highway construction sites telling us to slow down or move to a particular lane) and he put out large danger signs about 100 yards up the road.  This is when I felt the most in danger.  People were speeding up to the site and applied the brakes in the last 10 yards!  Some did not even slow down until they say the overturned vehicle, then realized it was dangerous!  A couple did slow down, and I thank them for following the hazard signs.  The high safety guy said that most people did not follow the signs and potentially increase the risk of even more injuries.  WOW, I would not have believed it, until I saw it!

A big thanks to all the emergency response people who put their lives at risk everyday! We can do our part by reading and following the signs!

So how does this scary situation apply to golf?  Great question!  There are many times golfers have great rounds going and lose focus about what is happening around them. They become so engrossed in their own shot, they forget to read the signs of possible hazards that can really affect their score.  It has happened to everyone, but the top players try to reduce impact of the hazards by remaining focused and reading the signs.

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Here are a few signs that most golfers should pay attention too if they want to score well:

  • Sign:  The ball flight his moving left to right or is short more than anticipated.  Tip:  Look at the tops of the trees before making a shot.  Most golfers, when playing well, have a tendency not to look up.  The movement of the leaves will show how strong the wind is blowing and in what direction.
  • Sign:  A player cannot reach the green or the risk/reward is too high.  Tip:  Selecting a club to set up your next shot is very important.  Most amateurs have a “grip it and rip it” attitude.  They hit the ball as far as possible all the time; not thinking about what distance will be left or stance they will have for the next shot.  Sometimes, it is easier to hit a bit shorter to have a better shot into the green.
  • Sign:  The pin is in a real tough position, tucked behind a bunker or very close to the edge of the green.  Tip:  The shot before your approach shot is the important stroke. This shot will allow you to set up the most advantageous angle into the green.  The proper approach angle will reduce strokes and instill confidence when hunting for pins.
  • Sign:  The greens are not rolling the same throughout your round.  Tip:  Be aware that the greens change given the time of day.  As your game progress, the speed and break of the green will change.  Early morning changes are caused by the greens drying out; late day changes are caused by the grass following the sun, thereby changing the grain of the green.

Reading the signs in life and golf will have a direct impact on the outcome.  It is important to be aware of what is happening around you and read the signs to make sure you stay ahead of any changes that could affect your golf game.  Golf is a dynamic game that always provides the signs that can result in great scores.  You just have to read and follow them.

I am a grateful golfer!  See you on the links!