Are You A Serious Golfer?

I would consider myself a serious golfer. Well, to a degree I do because as an amateur there are limitations to my abilities and motivation to be a better players. This is an unfortunate reality for most players who at one time in their career were too involved to realize that their “dedication” to the game was actually hurting their scores. This seems to be the case for Jordan Spieth as he recently explains during an interview.

Here is what Jorden has to say:

Watching this clip from a larger interview, I was struck by his candid and thoughtful answer. I am pretty sure he has thought about this question for some time as he slowly slides down the world rankings. His golf game a few short years ago was the best and he looked all but unstoppable for years to come. Then the pressures of success started to chip away at his psyche to a point where he struggles to string a few rounds of great golf together.

Like many golfers, Jordan became too serious about his golf game. Every shot (practice or otherwise) became critical to a point where a miss hit was catastrophic. I can relate to this situation from years ago when I would admonish myself for a poor swing, bad result, or the multiple unlucky bounces I was getting. I am sure I was not much fun to be around when playing as everything appeared to be nothing but negative energy.

So, I decided to make a change. I decided that, although important, golf was not the end all for my life. Golf was a sport that was meant to be fun and enjoyable. And like Spieth, I was not enjoying my time on the links as I had in the past. I decided to continue to have golf goals, but to enjoy the journey. It was a game changer on many levels.

By choosing to be positive about my golf game (and life in general) I immediately noticed improvements in my scores. When I was struggling to shoot below 80, I was shooting in the high 70s. The area I noticed the greatest improvement was in my short game. Chipping was no longer stressful and putting became enjoyable. I no longer lived in fear of making a poor shot. I felt a weight was lifted off my shoulders and a new path that lead me to where my game is today emerged!

I am a serious golfer! However, I am not paralyzed by overthinking my game or with fear of making a poor swing. I would prefer not to hit any shot badly, however how I react to these quasi stressful moments is really what counts. I still get frustrated from time to time, but it is as fleeting as the wind. I prefer to have fun, play well, be grateful, and enjoy my current journey!

Are you a serious golfer?

I am a grateful golfer! See you on the links!


7 thoughts on “Are You A Serious Golfer?

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  2. The best advice I ever got about golf is, “it’s a wonderful game as long as you don’t take it seriously”. A round of golf can elicit a roller coaster of emotions. Enjoy the moments of greatness & learn from your mistakes!

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  3. Jim, I’m a serious player, a traditional player, and I love the game. That was not always the case. When I worked in the business, we’d be at the course six days a week for 10-hour shifts. Monday was our day off because the club was closed. The pressure to keep your skills sharp was overwhelming, so on our off days, we played and practiced. Talk about a bus driver’s holiday. After two years of that, I hated golf. When I exited the business, I could finally step back, breathe and recharge the golf batteries. Glad it was only temporary and I’m left with a newfound respect for club pros. If their game is off, I cut them some slack because they work too much!




    • Brian,

      I value your perspective about being in the golf industry! I have often thought about trying to work at a proshop, but after watching them drive it all day, I am not sure I could handle the pace…..or at least want to! I am glad you have got your groove back and your passion is growing again.

      Cheers Jim

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  4. Jim
    Good post. I always want to put enjoyment of the game and time with my fitness first. I want to play well, but being too serious ruins it for me and my fellow golfers.
    At the end of the day – I want to enjoy my time on the links.

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